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Hello, my name is Harman Budiyanto. I'm an artist, businessman, reader with curious and open mind. I currently help my parents' bussiness.

It's common on my country, after graduate we will help our parents' business. 

I write this blog to share my ideas and thoughts about life. Mostly, it is my subjective record self experience and also summary of books (mostly are personal development ones) I have read. 

As an amateur writer, this blog is a good place for learning how to write articles. I hope this blog will be useful for you. ☺



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