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Hello, my name is Harman Budiyanto. I'm an artist, businessman, reader with curious and open mind. I currently help my parents' bussiness.

It's common on my country, after graduate we will help our parents' business. 

I write this blog to share my ideas and thoughts about life. Mostly, it is my subjective record self experience and also summary of books (mostly are personal development ones) I have read. 

As an amateur writer, this blog is a good place for learning how to write articles. I hope this blog will be useful for you. ☺



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Do Children Tend To Do Same Career As Their Parents?

Recently, I got a question pop up to my head whether we as children will eventually do same career as our father's / mother's. So, I googled it and found out that facebook researchers did some analysis from their huge members' data (you can read their article and data here : https://research.facebook.com/blog/do-jobs-run-in-families-/ ). From their research, they found out that people more likely to choose same as their parents' occupation compare to others whom their parents aren't do that occupation. Confused?? It means that if your parents are doctors, you more likely would be a doctor compare to your friend whom parents are lawyer. Why? Because we, humans, are "built" by world around us. When we were kids, our minds were like a blank page, and as we grow we learn new things. Where did we learn it from? You know the answer, yes, it was from our parents (including our kindergarden and school teachers, but their influence will be very small) and...
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