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Keep Your Life / Work In Balance. It's Important

I have seen a lot of people sacrificed their health in order to get money. Not only that, not a few people find excuses for not able to give their time for even their own children and family.

Maybe you will ask, "What is more important than working / money? I'm too busy. My time is too valuable, if I couldn't get money in exchange of my time, is it worthed?".

Now, let's calm down. And discuss it for a bit (you can write a comment and we will discuss it).

True, if you focus your life on something. That something will likely to grow and bigger. That works on other fields too (relationship, health, craft, anything).

On my opinions, there are 3 aspects other than money / working which is important. And when you cultivate them, they will serve you and lift you to the next level.

#1. Relaxing / Exercising / Eating Well (Health Management)

Healthy is the most precious wealth on the world.

No one will disagree about it. Can we enjoy our life if we are bedridden? Even if you have a lot of money in your bank accounts, does it feel good (live with sick body what I mean)? Yes, you can pay hospital for your healing. But sick isn't nice 😊.

Other than that, there are other benefits with exercising your body. When you work out, it releases a brain chemical that grows neural connections. It also releases dopamine (make you motivated) and serotonin (make you feel happy).

#2. Relationship

Networking is very important. We, humans, are social creatures. Everyone need to be loved and need to share their feeling. That is our nature.

By expanding your network, you can elevate your bussiness too. Bussiness isn't about you, but give value to the others. More impact you give to the world, more success you will be.

And give your time for your family.

We were bornt with nothing
We will end our life bring along nothing
What remains are our legacies

When we die, the only thing we left is memory. Will you leave a memory "He is a great father, He taught me how to be a winner" or "He is sucks, never be at home, when I need him, he is nowhere to be found"? Which one do you choose? It is your call.

Your children only become kids once and it is a short time too. Once it is gone, it will be gone forever.

#3. Learning

Give yourself a habit to read books and learn new skills. World keeps changing, what we think something is working now, it isn't guaranteed to work in the future.

Keep yourself up to date with new knowledges and skills.

Besides, by studying you will stimulate your brain to be active. Brain is like body muscle, more you train it, stronger and better it will be. Yes, older you are, you will be more forgetful (cannot beat age) but your brain's analytic and logic power will be higher.

Life is brilliant full of wonder. Explore your life in fullest. Enjoy.
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